REACTING TO HATE COMMENTS

         Hate comments! One of those things people say to bring us down, make us unhappy or make us stop believing in ourselves. Why do they do this? Out of jealousy; envy or is it just the fact that they are just haters? Whatever the reason is, it should never get into our heads. Whenever you receive a hate comment or hate speech as it is called, or an offensive and attacking speech, just hold your head up high and do not listen to them.

         If you get a hate comment or speech for doing what is right then carry on with your right works but if the comment comes in form of a rebuke because of the wrong things you always do then forget about the manner in which it was said and heed to the advice.
  People mostly receive hate comment either on the internet or face to face in their various place of work, environment, schools and the like and how you react to these comments is what softens or increases the pain afflicted.  As humans, we can receive a thousand compliments but focus our entire lives on one nasty hate comment.  We wake up one morning to check our social medias and smile at all the nice comments but one nasty comments can make us feel faded out.

Below are some ways to deal with hate comments whether online or face to face.

1.   Totally IGNORE the person: Whether face to face in real life or online, you do not have to necessarily answer or respond to hate comments. Because if you do so,(responding to the comments) you just get fed up and feel horrible. So the number one step to take is to ignore the haters. Yes they might think or even say you do not have the strength to respond or might think you are even a weakling but they do not know that it is your strength under control. Remember: Weak people revenge, strong people forgive and intelligent people ignore.

2. Respond with wise words( and I am not saying going all sarcastic): Few days ago, I started getting more comments than usual on my musical.ly account. Some were nice, in fact too nice and others were hateful and confusing. I got one hate comment on my YouTube, it was very horrible but I just responded in the nicest possible way ever. You could check my response on my channel. Yes I wasn't happy when I got that comment but I had to do what was right at the moment.
3. When you get hate comments, you should just CHILL because stressing yourself could harm you alot.
When you keep thinking over the comment or statement, you won't feel to good.
4. Silence sometimes is the best answer to any hate or sarcastic comment. People may think you are a wimp but actually it is your strength under control.
5. Another way to react to hate comment is by writing about Reacting To Hate Comments. This could be beneficial if you have a blog or own a Broadcast a lot.
Tips:
1. Do not leave people with hate comments either online or in person.
2. Do not be too sarcastic with people
3. Express your views about something or a person in the nicest way possible.
4. Learn to encourage rather than being hateful.
5. Help others see that hate comments are wrong.
6. Don't let hate comments get to you.

I hope this post has helped you and besides, you can ask questions in the comment section.

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